Hello everyone.
If you are reading this, you are either a “to be groom” or a few year close of being one or a frustrated married guys who wished he would have read it earlier. I have tried to make relevant attempt to address
every aspect of a human personality so as to know the person in front of you as
a mirror .It’s better to call it off beforehand rather than realizing your
mistake later and finding yourself standing at a civil court with the divorce papers.
So sit back, relax and put on your thinking hat on. You may disagree with me at
some points and it is totally acceptable.
It is said that,
“If we marry the right person, our life is complete and if
we don’t, our life is finished” and every one of us wants that “RIGHT PERSON”.
But the million dollar question is :How to get that right person ?.
If we divide the kinds of marriages happening in India,
arrange marriages still dominate most of our societies. Although we are in 21st
century where the world is celebrating gay marriages and we are supporting them
by changing our dp on fb, marrying outside the community is still to be considered one
of the biggest sins of our society. Arrange marriages works on the idea of meeting the to be bride a couple of times and sometime even once and saying the final answer.But, how is it possible to find the right person in couple
of meetings, few hours of talks, is the biggest worry for both guys and girls.
No one is going to show the dark side of their's during the
pre-wedding meets. So, what is the solution?? .
If a thief marries a
thief, they will be happily married forever. If a saint marries a saint, they
too will be happily married forever. But if there is a cross connection and a
thief somehow is hooked up to the saint, both of their life will be a living hell.
So it’s more about compatibility rather than being good or bad people.
These 10 question below can help you make some assessment
about the kind of person you are talking with and help you judge him quickly
rather than waiting for years to reveal the truth. But still the chances of
cheating are always there since you are only judging on the answers spoken.
Most of the quarrel among married couple happens because of
miscommunication between spouses regarding this issue. It’s better to get a
clear idea about the perspective of your life partner regarding their career
choice. It’s better for both of them to discuss their career preferences beforehand.
If she wants to work even after marriage and you are not comfortable with that
you should not marry her and should look for a lady who enjoys being house-wife.
2.Will you have any issues with my parents staying with us forever?
Be it Lage raho Munna Bhai or Bhagbaan, these movies reveal
the growing trend among the new generation which wants to get rid of their old parents.
If the couples don’t have any understanding among themselves regarding this
issue beforehand, then it may cause a trouble in their relationship at their
later stage. And if she doesn’t love your parents and don’t like them staying
at yours place and on the contrary you love their presence, there is no use wasting
time on her.
Believe me or not, most of Indian boys want to hide their
habits of drinking till their marriage which only backfires once the spouse
gets to know the truth afterward and eventually it leads to mistrust. So, it’s
better to say the truth however bitter it may be and have an idea about their reaction.
If it’s all right for her, you should marry otherwise don’t.
Some girls may be too demanding with the time they want from
you after marriage and eventually you may feel suffocated. So, it’s better to
ask such questions which will help you know the kind of person you will be
living the rest of your life with.
The playlist in your mobile can tell very closely about the
kind of person you are. This question will definitely help you discover the
person a little more deeply. A similar taste in music and movies is a sign of
good match for sure and vice-versa.
If you are a patriot social worker and wants someone in life
who can understand you and your work better, this is the question you must ask.
If the answer is YES, the chances of you being compatible is very high and if
it’s NO, it’s better to stay away from such selfish people. They will always
make a fuss of your work and will keep you irritated throughout your life.
Pitchers inspired many people to flow in the direction in
which their heart says. But, reel life is one thing and real life is one thing.
But still, there will be such people who have the strength to go ahead and take
that ultimate risk in their life and if your life partner is not supporting
about it, you will have already lost half the battle and if she is someone like
that of JEETU’S, then the battle is almost won. So, for the entire pitchers
fan, this question is petty certain.
How much lame it may sound, but this is one of the most
important reasons for breakups among the married couples these days. You
expected something but found her to be different, she expected something and
you are not like that. These things found after early years of marriages could
break a relationship as none of the partner is satisfied and happy. So, it’s
better to get that clear idea beforehand.
If you are planning for a long term commitment, you should
have at least some idea about the person’s behavior toward children and old
people. A person with a friendly attitude toward them is surely to have a
golden heart.
There is an old saying “You tell me about your friends and I
will tell you about you”. This question hits the bull’s eye. Listen carefully
about each of her friends she describes. If their traits somehow relates to
you, you might be compatible but if it not, it's better to look somewhere else for
your perfect soul mate.
HOPE THESE QUESTIONS
HELPS YOU IN DECIDING THE MOST IMPORTANT DECISION OF YOUR LIFE!!
